family standard roles
harmony is a natural by-product of your acceptance within self
parent-child
an energy of guilt
it is an automatic response to project your attention to the other ind
offer yourself permission to alter your projection of your perception
restricting your allowance of yourself to be freely expressive of your
redefining the term of parent
a craving to be allowing yourself to generate this type of freedom
unfairness
allowing yourself to move through and generate acceptance
you are generating an expectation
exploring the cosmic purpose of manifestation in partnership
I am an imagery of her that she is presenting to herself
Perceiving their expectations is actually perceiving my own expectatio
recognizing that your choices are your own
relationship with an alcoholic
cruelty to yourself was generated in responsiveness to judgments
many rules as to your expectations with regard to intimate relationships
anxiety concerning the future
genuine acceptance of another individual
I have a deep desire for a relationship
I want a shift relationship
What do YOU want?
parallel and opposite counterpart action between two focuses
my choice is my choice of response to his choices
means to lessen the physical separation
one of the strongest draws in coupling is familiarity of energy
you expect appreciation and acknowledgment
what is a relationship in this shift?
noticing in the moment what type of energy you are projecting
natural movement of expression
there is no wrong expression in what you are choosing
incorporating a partnership and also fully and intimately exploring yourself
relationship and intimacy with yourself and with other individuals
allow yourself to identify what you are denying yourself
assuming personal responsibility with respect to parents
picking people that are not very efficient for me
schooling - I need to give myself that freedom
generating more of a clarity within you concerning yourself
a belief of obligation to family
not what you want another individual to be, but what do YOU want to express?
in the actions of attempting to rescue you are discounting
moving yourself into a position in which you genuinely view you
Why would I choose the mother that I have in this focus?
there are a million attractive females out there and I feel powerless
as you force energy and movement, you also create a barrier
long- or short-term relationships is matter of preference
using this information to justify yourself
Ed is an aspect or focus or some connection to my dad
children are already expressing a natural openness
the fear is expressed is when you move your attention from yourself
YOU allow yourself, and other individuals respond
allowing yourself to create what YOU want and to LISTEN to yourself
these small ones are manifest in the objective movement of this shift
every individual that you encounter offers you a reflection of yourself
friendship versus partnership
curiosity in exploring different types of relationships that are unfamiliar
remove the lenses that you are viewing her through
viewing your day as a game rather than a struggle
you credit the other individual with your freedom and your choices
I don’t want to participate in a personal level
I feel like I’ve betrayed my partner, even though nothing happened
his father and I keep rescuing him financially
you credit the other individual with your expressions
you do not pay attention to what your choices are
discovering different expressions of yourself that are a natural flow
you are paying attention to your responses to her - but not to you
attaching that term 'relationship' to your interaction, you trigger your beliefs
reminding him of what he has accomplished and what you possess now
dying parent
Oh, that has something to do with my sister.
paying attention to you is not to the exclusion of other individuals
It’s kind of nice without challenges.
evaluate in your interaction with her what you want to be creating
recognizing your own energy expression
allow yourself to find one aspect of appreciation
hesitation and fear in association with other individuals
relationship is to be caring for the other individual
pay attention to you, but not to the exclusion of them
it should fit the mold
you need not compromise
Cooperation is lost if difference becomes the issue.
Vold parenting
allowing yourself to become familiar with exposing
not paying attention to what you want
all probabilities are actualized
recognizing what it is to be exploring in intimacy
why do we have these confrontations?
paying attention to those similarities between yourself and your son
hurtfulness and personal responsibility
do not credit the other individual with your allowance of yourself
not what you may receive, but what YOU want to express
What you are generating is an energy of defensiveness.
examine one of your truths concerning your role as a parent
you are defending of yourself
you may be the most helpful in expressing an acceptance of his choices
it seemed like talking about it was only making things worse
not what the daughter is doing, but what is being triggered within herself
loyalty is one aspect of relationships that is strongly expressed
expressing appreciation rather than expectation
watching the small one as he is expressive of himself generates a threat
attractiveness
Reflection is not mirroring
it is important for you to be genuinely aware of you and of your value
Comparison is dangerous, for it is quite discounting of both individuals.
why can’t I just accept her for who she is, and not let it get to me?
adolescence: generate an acceptance, but also express your preferences
uncomfortable childhood experiences
a key point is noticing that you are expressing automatic responses
expectations
an automatic response to that, that you should not express yourself
dissolving counterpart action with father
You have not generated a specific draw, yet, of one individual
need of camouflage
not allowing other individuals to connect
You continue to move your attention to lack and what you are not doing.
remember balance and cooperation, neither of which requires agreement
I felt like this relationship was the right one
how to make it easier to be a stepmom
you may allow yourself to express yourself - without expectations
not discounting either of you
trust is not earned
altering the energy that YOU are projecting
who is the most valuable commodity in the relationship?
be allowing yourself
focusing upon your complement is enough
Merely allow yourself your own freedom.
The more intense her bursts, the longer your time framework has been.
Don’t you love when it rains?
Allow yourself to be present with yourself in the now and not project.
in your guilt, you also deny them your supportiveness
do not concentrate your attention upon these four individuals
you have forgotten cooperation and replaced that with acquiescing
a resentment that goes with that obligation
the small one shall actually determine how the outcome shall be
in your not valuing yourself, that triggers this issue of compromise
he called me up on the phone in my dream the other night
I felt my mom didn’t like me
Attraction does not necessarily denote a romantic relationship.
the conflict is motivating you to genuinely turn your attention to you
Stop anticipating.
concerning yourself with what you want
not being triggered by his behavior
Expectation automatically presents an energy of threat
misconstruing attractions with an automatic association of sexuality
generating an expectation of how the other individual should respond
It is not a matter of caring-for but caring.
The pattern is whoever I like is a married man
to view where conflicts stem from
with friends/parents
you are offering yourself the opportunity to view belief systems
and then suddenly I didn’t react to when she is frustrated
relationships
automatic responses in association with individual guidelines
generating expectations of yourself to continue that role
recognizing the similarity of that strength within you
attempting to be encouraging is received as a discounting
healing a situation with other individuals by healing you
independence versus confinement
more important than others
belief system of intimacy
waiting for signals or signs from the other individual
with men
differences in belief-systems
romantic love
holding to belief systems
Which orientation is the easiest for a softie in a partnership relationship?
redefining relationship
the state of relationship — not relation-SHIPS
not engaging situations that he disagrees with for they are too threatening
the expression of liking an individual is not easily broken
responsability
what is important to each of you?
wave in consciousness
elements that cross over all relationships
belief system of relationships
authority
your relationship with yourself
even exchange
a spider in a web
Clinton affair
wave in consciousness
belief system of relationship
aspects appearing from nowhere
mother and children
daughter choosing to disengage
passion vs. security
defenses
expectation
selflessness
fidelity
penetration of energy field
parents, obligation
the camouflage of helpfulness
as a gauge of acceptance of self
authority / emotional expression
authority
conflict as an opportunity
camouflage of helpfulness
camouflage of caring
emotional connection
moving against the familiar and automatic
changing job
your soul mate is yourself
belief of monogamy
challenging our beliefs
parents - how they view you
natural movement of partnership
expressing affection
you wish a choice to be created
automatic response of defense
your concern with your parents
parental responsibility issues
a partnership without partners
wanting a romantic relationship
difficulties of acceptance
loss and closure/soul-mate
loss and closure/soul-mate
create a partnership with yourself first
harmony of opposites
creating alterations
parent-child agreement
parent-child agreement
helping or not?
interaction in unfamiliar situations
intimate relationships
sexual intimacy
desire for intimacy
mother - daughter
loyalty/betrayal
with mother
challenge
independence vs. intimacy
pleasing other individuals
no motivation
dehumanizing situation
choosing of family/parents
turn your attention to self
suffering mother
mother-daughter
scattering energy/ perceiving expectations
exploring intimate relationships
mother - daughter
opportunity to view beliefs
soul-mates
father - son
with computers and authorities
feeling unusual
Elian
you even create other individuals
ending intimate relationships
conflict in relationships
and intermediate orientation
soft/soft romantic relationships
you are the other individual
fear within relationship / disappointment
I am not offering to you a right or wrong concerning your choice
relationships/intimacy
challenging of belief systems
relationships and acceptance of self
personal responsibility and control
merging energies
addiction - he really needs help
soft relationships
mother - son
expectation/motivation
and intimacy
and intimacy
preference not obligation/predestination
parental responsibility
expectations
the role of victim
familiarity
fear of failure and success
reflections of what you are expressing to self
creating what you want
lack of sexual interest
are not co-created
relationship with yourself as essence
creating a relationship with you
creating what you want
genuine offering of supportiveness
creating a new understanding and familiarity in relationship to self
viewing his own creation and looking within self
father - daughter
reflection
helpfulness to others through listening to self
entirely created through your perception
drawn to negativity
a fearful kid
relationships as a reflection of you
robbing yourself of the now
communication
exploring personal responsibility issues
genuine supportiveness to children
every individual is a reflection of you
defensiveness
conflict in the workplace
sharing expression with sister
is there something that we are meant to accomplish together?
tremendous potentiality for disappointment
How do I regain trust in that person?
identifying emotional communications
personal responsibility - encouraging free flow
playfulness and conflict
playfulness vs. forcing energy
Oh, I'm dissecting myself!
you are projecting a different quality of energy outwardly
expecting an absolute answer in your concern of future
a permission from another individual is not necessary
example of how you create automatic responses
rules and expectations
regain your wheel of your own ship
pain in the neck
Sunday Blues
you reflect to yourself what you are creating
I get very frustrated with other people
attempting to alter the other individual's choices
choosing a relationship - or not
Ariel/Gillian
moving in energy and expression together
recognize what you want within self
what do you genuinely wish to be generating?
interaction with family
you both create very similar types of expressions
you have presented to yourself a reflection of expressions within your
no meeting of another individual within any time framework is random
soft interactions
responding to your expression of energy
I feel she's asking more than I can give
opportunity to NOTICE that you are projecting your attention outwardly
attempting to address to your own expressions of limitation
This individual could be any individual.
parents and teenagers: creating an automatic response of anger
situations where someone might demand something from me
intimacy in a lack of differentiation of types of relationships
I have to share this individual
Generating an expression that YOU may be expressing that.
he's just different, I guess - from the norm
beliefs that power is bad and dangerous
you are offering yourselves shared experiences
the child already incorporates an awareness of directing itself
the most strongly expressed influence concerns your beliefs
attraction, affection and love