The Camouflage of Helpfulness
Topics:
“The Camouflage of Helpfulness”
Saturday, November 21, 1998 (Private/Phone)
Participants: Mary (Michael) and Marcos (Marta).
Elias arrives at 2:37 PM. (Arrival time is 17 seconds)
ELIAS: Greetings! (Smiling)
MARCOS: Hello, Captain! It’s a pleasure to talk to you once
again.
ELIAS: (Chuckling) And you have inquiries this day?
MARCOS: Yes, I do. I have a few questions, Elias, that I’d
like to ask you, the first two or three having to do with out-of-bodys
that I’ve been experiencing lately. The first one had to do with
a wonderful, wonderful out-of-body I had where I met this person, this
woman that I completely, completely fell in love with, but in a way that
is so different, that I’ve never experienced before. It went way
beyond a feeling or a sexual kind of love. It was just total, and
I wonder if you could tell me about that, as much as you want to, as many
details, because not only did I see her, I think it was more of an experience
in that out-of-body. But I also saw places, a city, and I don’t know
if it was a past or future kind of focus, in our terms. Anyway, I
was just overwhelmed with that out-of-body, and if you could talk about
that, I would appreciate it immensely.
ELIAS: Very well. I have offered this information to be
relayed to you to Cindel previously, but I shall offer this to you individually
also. I have expressed that this particular experience of out-of-body
was the experience of meeting yourself in the presentment of physical imagery.
Now, let me explain.
At times, within certain aspects of consciousness, an individual may
present themselves with an image that they translate into a physical form
of another individual, and this expression of energy may be the expression
of essence, and in this it may be producing of a different type of experience
and emotional quality than you are familiar with within physical focus.
In this experience that you have presented yourself, as I have expressed
to Cindel previously, the tone of your essence is expressed in physical
terms through the word of Marta.
In this, there is an identification of female quality. Although
essence holds no gender, there is a translation into your physical objective
terms of male or female, which is the designation of the type of expression
or leaning of that particular tone in qualities that you identify in physical
terms as male or female; the designation of the rational or the intuitive.
In this, your essence tone translates into your physical dimension with
the overall tone of female, which leans more in the direction of the intuitive
rather than the rational or intellectual.
You have presented yourself with a translation of energy which has configured
itself into the form of another individual, that being female as identified
by your essence, and this female is the presentment to yourself of your
essence, therefore stimulating you into new experiences of emotions and
also physical sensations that are unfamiliar to you within your physical
experiences objectively.
The reason you have offered yourself this experience of this presentment
of essence to yourself is that we have interacted with each other objectively,
and I have offered you much information in the area of acceptance of self
and your own personal issues with personal responsibility. In this,
you have assimilated much of the information that I have offered you, and
have begun to move in the direction of addressing to these issues and moving
more in the direction of your own acceptance of self.
This is acknowledged to you by the presentment of essence, that you
may be validating to yourself the wondrous qualities of self, and also
that you may present yourself the knowing that all that you seek within
your desires, even within physical terms of relationships with other individuals
physically, lies within your relationship to yourself and your acceptance
of self, and this shall facilitate the interaction of yourself with other
individuals, in offering you that which you desire. Therefore, you
have allowed yourself to be connecting with your own essence.
Now; let me also express to you that although individuals may be accessing
communication with essence, it is not often that individuals may move in
the direction of presenting themselves with the physical translation of
energy into an actual form that is the presentment of their essence to
themselves that they may be interactive with. Therefore, this is
quite a movement within your subjective and objective widening of your
awareness, to allow yourself this interaction and this presentment, and
I am acknowledging of your accomplishment in this area.
MARCOS: Thank you! Thank you so much. It is beyond
words, the feeling that I have every time I relive this experience, every
time I think about it. And Cindel did tell me about your information,
but very, very little. She said, “I think it’s best for you to have
a session with Elias and get more information,” and I think that she was
right. It’s just so great to hear it from you! Tell me, Elias,
is it something, then, that as I move into more acceptance — which I believe
I am moving in that direction, I know it consciously — are there probabilities
created to have more meetings like this?
ELIAS: Yes. This would be your choice, to be allowing yourself
to move in this direction, but I may express to you also that the allowance
of yourself and your objective awareness to be interactive with essence
in this manner may be quite beneficial to you, for it may be a very reinforcing
experience to you and also quite validating to you. And also, it
may be quite helpful in offering information to you directly that you may
assimilate in objective terms, for within this out-of-body state, so to
speak, you hold an objective awareness, and in this you may find that there
is more of an ease in your translation of your communication with essence,
as you are receiving the communication in objective terms. Therefore,
the translation has already been accomplished and needs not be filtered
through objective imagery.
In this, you may be choosing to be moving in the experience of this
type of out-of-body connection futurely also, but I shall also express
to you that the probability within physical focus is that within objective
terms, this shall not be an ongoing, continuous action, for the presentment
of essence is temporary, only for the reason of reinforcement and validation,
and once fully experienced and accomplishing of this purpose, it shall
discontinue in this manner, for it is unnecessary. You shall hold
the objective memory of the interaction that you may draw upon futurely.
Therefore, I express to you encouragingly that you may be allowing yourself
the expression of pleasure within these experiences, within the temporary
allowance of the connection that you may be creating presently and within
your near future.
MARCOS: Okay. I understand that perfectly. Thank you
very much. Let me ask you something else. Years ago I had a
dream, and I don’t know if there’s a connection to this or not, but it
just seemed the right time to ask. I had a dream where I saw the
Virgin of Medjugorje, and I was in a church, and it was probably this imagery
to myself. Is there any connection to this out-of-body now?
ELIAS: In a manner of speaking, you are correct. But within
the time framework in linear terms, you have offered yourself imagery in
the area of the existing belief systems, and allowed yourself to be connecting
with that particular type of imagery that shall be invoking of great lovingness
and beauty.
In this, you may view that particular experience as a prelude to the
out-of-body experience that you offer yourself presently. That experience
moved within the confines of your belief systems and what you allowed yourself
to be assimilating at the time. Now that you have widened your awareness
to an extent, you offer yourself a clearer picture outside of the religious
belief systems, and inter-activeness with self as opposed to an icon.
MARCOS: That’s great. That’s wonderful! I appreciate
it. Thank you, Elias. I was in Houston again this week and
I had another out-of-body, a very different one. It was just a lot
of fun, flying around and doing somersaults all over the place. But
there have been three out-of-body experiences I’ve had, including the one
where I met with the Dream Walkers, and they’ve all happened in Houston.
What do you think about that?
ELIAS: You allow yourself to move in this direction — offering
yourself the mobility and more of a freedom of this type of experience
in this location — for the reason that you are not objectively restraining
yourself quite so strongly. Within your home location, so to speak,
you allow different elements of your objective creating to be entering
into your awareness and affecting of your mobility in certain manners.
This restricts some aspects of your movement, for you are distracting yourself
and not allowing your full attention in these areas.
Therefore, as you move to different locations, you also allow yourself
to move into more of a freedom of expression, in like manner to many individuals,
within objective terms, of their expression of holiday or vacation.
As you choose to be creating of these expressions, you also disconnect
yourselves, so to speak, with your mundane concerns and those issues of
responsibilities that you hold objectively, and you suspend these concerns
temporarily and allow yourselves to move more freely temporarily.
It is not merely this one location that you may allow yourself this
type of freedom in expression, and also I may be expressing to you that
as you are practicing with this action and these expressions, you may be
becoming more familiar and at ease with this movement, and subsequently
also allow yourself this freedom of expression within your home location.
MARCOS: Okay, that’s great! That’s beautiful. A different
question now, regarding agreements that we
make within essence. I’ve been talking about these with Cindel and
others, and reading about them in transcripts, and is there a way that
we can ... when we are here in physical focus and in a conscious sense,
is it possible for us to remember or to regain the memory of these agreements
and to carry out these agreements? I mean, how does that happen?
ELIAS: Most definitely! You hold the ability to be offering
yourselves the remembrance, and also, within the action of this shift,
this would be an aspect of this shift in consciousness, to be allowing
yourselves the remembrance of essence. In this, you already offer
yourselves much of your remembrances, and are beginning to allow yourselves
more and more of your remembrances as you move into connecting with other
focuses and also other areas of consciousness.
Now; as to agreements that you have moved into within consciousness,
you hold the ability to access this information also. At times it
may be helpful to you, within objective terms, to be offering yourselves
objective triggers, so to speak, to be jogging of your remembrance.
In this, what I am expressing is that you may be accessing certain locations
or actions or events or individuals within your physical focus that may
be in connection to other focuses which relate to agreements that have
been made within consciousness. You may also access the remembrance
of agreements through dream interaction and through the accessing of other
areas of consciousness in many different manners.
All of this information is available to you, and it is your choice which
direction you choose to be moving into to be accessing this information.
Different “methods,” so to speak — as you are so fond of methods — are
accomplishing in these areas for different individuals. It is merely
what you draw yourself to, within your individual methods that allow you
to be connecting more efficiently, that shall be providing you with your
remembrances. You may be choosing to access agreements through this
out-of-body experiencing or through dream imagery, although you may also
be connecting objectively with elements of agreements by allowing yourself
to be revisiting certain locations in connection with other focuses, and
this may offer you helpfulness in this area also.
MARCOS: Okay. Would you say that by following one’s intent,
one can experience these remembrances? (Pause)
ELIAS: Your intent enters into all of your accomplishments.
Now; within an individual focus, your intent within that particular
focus may be quite linked to a particular agreement which you have created
within consciousness, in which it may be helpful to you to be offering
yourself the remembrance, but the intent itself may not necessarily be
facilitating the remembrance. It may motivate you in the direction
of stimulating your remembrance in certain directions, but it is not necessarily
creating of your remembrance. It is merely moving alongside of that
action, and the remembrance itself may be conversely facilitating of more
of an efficiency within the accomplishment of your intent within a particular
focus. Are you understanding?
MARCOS: Yes I am, perfectly, and I think that’s what I was trying
to say. As we follow or accomplish or carry out our intent in a very
natural way, then I believe that would lead us to the locations or the
individuals or the events in a very natural way, that would then trigger
memory of the agreements.
ELIAS: Correct, for in this action you are following your desire,
and this shall motivate you in the directions of your remembrances.
MARCOS: Okay. Now it’s becoming so much clearer when I go
against my intent, because it’s always a choice, but many times I can tell
immediately and now very clearly when I go against my desires or my intent,
and it just becomes a much freer development of the intent, if you will.
ELIAS: Quite, for as you move in the direction that is not in
alignment with your intent, you also shall be creating more of a thickness
within your focus.
Therefore, it shall appear to you as the difference between moving through
your air and moving through MUD. (Grinning)
MARCOS: Exactly! A different question on other individuals:
can you tell me a little bit about my connection with my great-aunt? (Pause)
ELIAS: You hold connection to that essence in what we may term
to be subjective terms. Therefore, there has also been a bleed-through
into objective translation in the manner of certain knowings of connection
with that individual focus and a draw in that particular direction.
In this, you hold a connection of mergence of tone, not in the area
of fragmentation of your essence or that essence, but in the mergence of
tone of those two essences, in conjunction with several other essences,
to be creating of the action of fragmentation of another essence.
In that action of mergence, there has been a creation of similarity in
tone, and this is what you objectively recognize and translate into a knowing
of some type of connection with that particular focus of that essence.
MARCOS: And is that essence or that fragmentation lending energy
to several individuals here now, like Castille or Cindel or maybe even
Isabel?
ELIAS: The fragmented essence lends energy to all of these individuals
and several other individuals, in certain areas that all of these individuals
concern themselves with commonly within their physical expressions.
MARCOS: Okay, I thought so. Thank you, Elias.
Can you briefly tell me about a connection that I have with a person
at work called Alexandra? I’ve met her recently and there seems to
be a very strong connection in some way, but I can’t figure out exactly
how. (Pause)
ELIAS: You hold several focuses with this individual within this
particular dimension. [In] all of these focuses that you interact
within together, you have created relationships extending in what you would
term to be more than acquaintances.
This is not to say that you have engaged in romantic relationships,
for you have not, but you have lent energy to each other in addressing
to different issues within several focuses, offering each other helpfulness
in the relationships of friendships throughout these focuses, and you allow
yourselves once again an objective meeting to be lending energy to each
other in this type of expression in this focus.
MARCOS: Okay, thank you. One last question, Elias.
Some time ago, you had offered information regarding a pattern of behavior
that I was creating in regard to personal relationships
with my former mate, and currently with Paul, that had been occurring quite
frequently. I believe that as I have been able to free myself from
certain restrictions, as I view them, that seems to be lessening.
It just seems to me — and I wanted to confirm this — is it really just
as simple as self acceptance, and then that leads to just a freer acceptance
of the other individual? (Simple?)
ELIAS: Yes. In your acceptance of self, you also automatically
move in the direction of an acceptance of other individuals, and let me
also express to you that in addressing to your own issues in the area of
personal responsibility and acceptance of self, you also are beginning
to move outside of these established patterns that you have created previously
in these types of relationships.
Now; let me be reminding you that at times, this expression of personal
responsibility for these individuals may be camouflaging itself in the
guise of being helpful and concerned for this other individual, and within
your expression, there is in objective terms a genuineness of wishing to
be helpful with the other individual.
But this is also the camouflage that this personal responsibility has
chosen to disguise itself with, for this offers you the ability and the
opportunity to move in the area of reinforcing this type of expression,
and also it allows you to be justifying to yourself your own helpfulness
and your own genuineness, so to speak, within your expression. But
this justification also rotates round and offers you the ability to be
moving in the direction of non-acceptance of THEIR non-acceptance, for
you are offering within helpfulness.
Now; in this expression, view how you have allowed yourself to move
in this circle of expressions, which is the pattern that I have expressed
previously to you.
You create an expression. You express to yourself that this expression
is of genuine concern and helpfulness, and in response to this expression,
the other individual may not necessarily be accepting of that expression,
and in response to that, you are justifying of yourself in your own expression
of lack of acceptance of them, for they have not been accepting of your
expression!
These are all of the expressions within a cycle of reinforcing this
issue of personal responsibility, but as you move in the direction of acceptance
of self, you begin to recognize that as you are moving in the direction
of self, you automatically are accepting of other individuals, lessening
your conflict and also eliminating your necessity, so to speak, to move
in directions of influencing other individuals and interpreting their lack
of acceptance of your expression as an act of hurtfulness. Are you
understanding?
MARCOS: Perfectly, and it really is as simple as self acceptance,
but to accomplish that is sometimes extremely difficult! (Elias grins)
Yet when you’re able to move in that direction, you can feel it and see
it immediately.
ELIAS: Quite, and this offers you much freedom, and it also is
eliminating of much of your conflict. This be the reason that I am
expressing to individuals so very often that the key to this movement of
acceptance, within ALL areas, is the acceptance of self first.
MARCOS: Absolutely! Well, I have no more questions today,
Captain. Thank you so much, thank you as always, and thank you for
your information. Thank you for being!
ELIAS: Ah, and you are very welcome, and I express to you, Marta,
much affection and great lovingness. I also am quite encouraging
in your endeavors with your out-of-body experiences and the presentment
that you have offered to yourself of essence. Offer yourself the
enjoyment and the pleasure of this experience, and allow yourself futurely
the remembrance of these experiences. I offer to you the expression
of my energy, and I shall continue to be in communication with you and
offering you energy in your accomplishments, and you shall be validated
in this as you allow yourself to be noticing my energy and the objective
imagery that I continue to be presenting to you for your validation.
To you this day, I express much affection. I also offer to you my
greetings to be extended to Paul and to Isabel. To you, I bid a very
fond au revoir.
MARCOS: Au revoir, and the same to you.
Elias departs at 3:21 PM.
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