Sumari/Sumafi & Vold/Tumold
Topics:
“Sumari/Sumafi & Vold/Tumold”
“You Always Hurt The One You Love”
Sunday, November 15, 1998 (Private/Phone)
Participants: Mary (Michael) and ANONYMOUS.
Vic’s note: ANONYMOUS hails from The Netherlands.
Elias arrives at 12:07 PM. (Arrival time is 15 seconds)
ELIAS: Good afternoon! (Smiling)
ANONYMOUS: Good afternoon.
ELIAS: And do you have inquiries this day?
ANONYMOUS: Yes.
ELIAS: You may proceed, if you are so choosing.
ANONYMOUS: I would like to know what my family name is and my alignment.
ELIAS: Very well. Essence name, Sonjah; S-O-N-J-A-H. (pronounced
son’ya) Essence family, Tumold; alignment in this focus....
ANONYMOUS: Excuse me. What was the last word you said?
ELIAS: Alignment in this focus, Vold.
ANONYMOUS: Okay, thank you.
ELIAS: You are quite welcome.
ANONYMOUS: Okay, I will go on with my next question. Recently
I have been having these automatic
writing experiences. Is this a communication with essence, and will
this be developing so that it will become clearer to me?
ELIAS: Interesting situation that you have been presenting yourself
with! Let me express to you that what you are tapping into are two
different elements, depending upon the time framework and the openness
and the framework, so to speak, that you are placing yourself within.
Now; let me offer an explanation in this area.
At times you are tapping into a communication of essence, which would
be the communication that you are allowing to be objectively surfacing
through, so to speak, between yourself — the focus — and your own essence.
Now; at other time frameworks, your state of awareness or direction
of attention, in a manner of speaking, slightly alters and turns.
What this is creating is your own allowance to be tapping into a different
type of experience and expression.
Therefore, you may notice at times a slight difference in the tone of
information that you receive within this action of automatic writing.
The information may present itself slightly different in one situation,
as in difference to another situation.
The reason for this is that at times you are not necessarily accessing
your own essence and a communication from your own essence, but are tapping
into a world view of another focus of another essence and allowing that
information to present itself also.
Therefore, you may be noticing, if you are paying attention, that you
may be offering yourself in this experience of automatic writing a certain
line, so to speak, of information, and at times there may be a deviation
in this information and it may present itself slightly differently.
This may be your indication that you have “switched channels,” so to speak,
(chuckling) and in this altering of channels, in a manner of speaking,
you have turned your attention to be tapping into information of the world
view instead of the communication of essence. Are you understanding?
ANONYMOUS: Yes. So, sometimes I’m tapping into the world view
of another focus of another essence. Can you tell me what essence
and what focus that would be? Is that one particular focus, or are
there different focuses?
ELIAS: This would be of one particular essence, but at times would
be slightly different focuses of world views of that essence.
Let me explain to you that each focus of an essence holds its own individual
world view, but within these world views, these are energy deposits within
consciousness that offer a philosophy, so to speak, and in this they offer
different elements of information.
What you are allowing yourself to be tapping into is information that
moves in a similar direction of information that you offer to yourself
through your own essence, and this adds depth to the information that you
receive through your own essence. It also offers you a wider view
of the information that you receive.
Now; the essence that you tap into ... I shall offer you an identification
of tone with this essence, although this essence objectively may be unfamiliar
to you, but in this identification of tone, you may also hold an element
of ringing in this direction. The translation of the tone of that
particular essence is Nicolai.
There are different focuses of that particular essence that you tap
into and this is not of tremendous importance, but the identification of
the essence itself may become important to you futurely, in certain aspects.
This is not to say that this identification holds great importance, but
may be helpful to you in your validation to yourself of the reality of
this communication that you hold with this particular essence.
As to your questioning of, “Shall this be developing further and be
continuing?” within the probabilities that you are moving into presently,
you ARE establishing a type of communication with that particular essence
in conjunction with your own essence.
In this action, if you are so choosing and if you are allowing yourself
to be opening your awareness more, you may be developing in this area and
expanding your own abilities, not merely limiting your abilities of communication
with that essence or your own essence to the action of automatic writing,
but may be moving into more direct interaction in a much more objective
expression and awareness.
ANONYMOUS: Okay. The question that comes up after you telling
me my family name is, I’ve always felt very attracted to the families of Sumafi
and Sumari, and the families that you just mentioned, Tumold and Vold,
are not at all what I would have thought they would be. (Elias grins)
Can you tell me something about that?
ELIAS: I may. Let me express to you that this is an interesting
combination of family and alignment. It is not unusual, but it is
an interesting dynamic that is created within physical focus of these two
families, and within the action of this shift, they complement each other
in many respects.
The element of your identification of Sumafi and Sumari is also not
unusual within this particular time framework. The families of Sumafi
and Sumari have presented themselves, within a recent time framework of
your linear time element, as being quite interactive with physical focus.
Therefore, there is also more of an objective recognition and identification
with many individuals in regard to these two particular families.
Although these two particular families are not orchestrating, so to speak,
this shift in consciousness, all of the essence families hold an involvement
in different manners with this shift in consciousness.
Now; in objective terms, so to speak, the Sumafi and the Sumari families
have moved into a position, for a time framework, of the presentment in
objective terms of being more obvious within physical expressions, so to
speak, offering information to individuals in more of objective terms.
Therefore, there is a magnating to these two particular families.
Also, let me be reminding you that each individual within physical focus,
although belonging to a certain essence family and aligning with a certain
essence family, holds all of the qualities and expressions in some manners
to all of the essence families. Therefore, also at times, objectively
you may be identifying and recognizing more easily qualities of certain
essence families than other essence families.
Now; let me also clarify in this area. The family of Sumafi and
the family of Sumari, in objective terms, hold much more obvious and defined
qualities that are much easier to identify than other essence families.
Therefore, in any given focus, an individual may look to their expressions
within their particular focus and they may identify quite easily certain
elements of their expressions that may move in the direction of teaching
or of holding to information in a more undistorted manner or expressing
themselves in what you objectively identify as a perfectionist type of
expression, all of which would be qualities or interpretations of qualities
that you may assign to the Sumafi family.
The Sumari family is another essence family that is easily identified
in objective terms. They hold artistic qualities. They do not
identify themselves in alignment with established groups or what you may
term as establishment areas. They move in directions of explorations
of elements of physical focus that may seem unconventional or not necessarily
in alignment with the officially accepted expressions of reality.
They also, as I have expressed many times, are quite efficient at pot-stirring
and rocking the boat, so to speak.
Now; these are obvious qualities that may be easily identified, and
in this it is quite easy for individuals to identify those particular expressions
in their individual focus. Other essence families may be more difficult
to identify in the qualities that they demonstrate and the intents that
they project. In their expressions, they may not be quite so obvious
in the identification within yourself throughout your focus, but as I offer
to you examples and more information which is in alignment with these particular
families, you may begin to recognize qualities in yourself that are in
alignment with these two families.
In the explanations that I have offered of essence families, I hold
a tremendous awareness that many individuals misinterpret the intents and
the qualities of those essence families, but as we continue within our
engagement of these sessions and offering of information, this becomes
more and more clarified, with [regard to] the misinterpretations and misunderstandings.
Now; within your particular situation and your focus, your alignment
with the Vold family offers you a tremendous ability in accessing inner
senses. It offers you more of an easement in the area of allowing
your own expressions, in trustfulness of your own abilities, to move into
the areas of exercising your inner senses with more of an ease. This
facilitates your action of your automatic writing, for you allow yourself
the openness of your own inner senses. This is an ability that you
find an ease with, and this is directly influenced by your alignment with
this particular essence family, for this particular essence family accesses
inner senses quite easily, and the expression of individuals within physical
focus automatically moves into much of an exercising of the intuitional
aspects of self.
In your belonging to the Tumold family, there is an automatic expression
within you that lends itself to an area of acceptance. This is not
to say that you may not experience difficulties at times in the area of
acceptance of self or of other individuals, for all individuals within
physical focus are experiencing of this, but many times you may allow yourself
an easement into certain areas of acceptance of other individuals and their
expressions and an acceptance of self and your expressions, which is directly
linked, so to speak, to the influence of the Tumold family of which you
belong.
The misinterpretation of many individuals within physical focus concerning
these essence families is that there is an automatic movement, within individuals’
thought processes and evaluations, of certain negative elements concerning
the Vold family and certain misunderstandings and narrowness in the thought
process concerning the Tumold family.
As to the Tumold family, individuals within physical focus identify
very narrowly with this family in the aspect or expression of healing,
and their idea of healing is quite limited. Therefore, they hold
many misunderstandings and interpretations of the expression and intent
of that particular family.
They also look to the Vold family and recognize that individuals that
hold an alignment with the Vold family tend or lean in the direction of
being quite expressive emotionally, and in many respects, individuals place
a negative upon that aspect. Not all individuals aligned with the
Vold family move in the direction of expressing their focus in extremes
of emotional qualities, although many individuals aligning with this family
of Vold DO express very emotionally. This is an expression of deep
passion that these individuals create within their experience. This
is their expression of that intent that allows them to be experiencing
a tremendous fullness of the creation of this particular dimension, which
one of the base aspects of this particular dimension IS the expression
of emotion.
In this, they also allow themselves to more easily be connecting with
their own abilities of their own inner senses, accessing through their
emotional expression and connecting with the emotional expression of other
individuals, and allowing themselves more of an empathic interpretation
of other individuals and the creation of other individuals’ reality through
an understanding of their emotional qualities and experiences.
You hold these abilities in natural element, which offers you an easement
in these areas and also offers you more of an ability to access certain
elements that are directly related to the trusting of self and the acceptance
of self, [and] that moves you in the area of the expression of your automatic
writing and other abilities.
ANONYMOUS: Okay, thank you. My next question is about the shift.
I have always felt like I was some sort of teacher. That is why I
felt much recognition towards the Sumafi and the Sumari families.
My question is, am I some kind of teacher, and what would be my role in
this shift?
ELIAS: The reason that you identify in this area is that you hold
this ability to access your inner senses and to be exercising them, and
the element of teaching in this area is not the same as the element of
teaching with the Sumafi family, but the sharing of that information of
your own abilities with other individuals and lending energy to their easement
in their expressions within the action of this shift.
This is also the element of the Tumold influence, which you may be interpreting
as the healing element. You offer the ability to be not only providing
an example to other individuals, which shall be helpful, but you may also
be instructive to other individuals in offering them different manners
in which they may be accomplishing movement with respect to this shift
in consciousness, in similar manner to yourself. As you allow yourself
more of an objective understanding of areas of consciousness that you allow
yourself to tap into and experiences that you allow yourself to move into,
you also allow yourself the ability to provide this information to other
individuals in a manner of guidance. Are you understanding? (Pause)
ANONYMOUS’s note: Here, I wasn’t able to hear anything through the phone.
ANONYMOUS: I’m not hearing anything right now. I don’t know
what’s wrong, but....
ELIAS: Let me express to you that your ability ... are you connecting?
(Grinning slyly — something was up here!)
ANONYMOUS: Yes, I am.
ELIAS: (Chuckling mischievously) Your ability to be accomplishing
in the areas that you allow yourself to be opening to in your experiences
offers you also the ability to offer guidance to other individuals within
their experiences, and in this you are quite in alignment with your underlying
intent of the Tumold family. Your expression of teaching is not necessarily
teaching. It is offering a guidance to other individuals and a helpfulness
in their expressions, as facilitated by your understanding of their expressions
and your awareness. Are you understanding?
ANONYMOUS: Yes, I am. Yes, the guidance; not to teach, but more
to guide. I can relate to that. My next question is also in
this area. I’ve been thinking of taking training in regression therapy,
past life or other life regression. Would that be a beneficial choice?
ELIAS: I may express to you that this may be quite beneficial
to you, and you may also recognize the influence of your Tumold and Vold
intents in that particular expression, for in that expression, your offering
to other individuals is a facilitation of their accessing of their own
information. You shall not be moving in the area of teaching them,
but guiding them and offering them helpfulness in accessing their own information.
Do you recognize now the expression of your own belonging to and alignment
with these particular families, and how very influencing they are and have
been within your focus? Although they may not be quite as obvious
in certain terms as the Sumari and the Sumafi, they are quite obvious within
your direction in this particular focus and the expression of your individual
intent in helpfulness to other individuals, to be recognizing the action
of this shift and to be recognizing their own abilities in the area of
acceptance of self, and this is very much your intent within this particular
focus.
ANONYMOUS: Okay. My next question is about my friend Edwin.
I would like to know of which family he is and which alignment, and can
you elaborate on our relationship together? (Pause)
ELIAS: Essence name, Sonti; S-O-N-T-I. Essence family, Sumari;
alignment, Milumet. You have participated with this essence in other
physical focuses, within this dimension and within other dimensions.
Now; let me express to you that although I do not concern myself in
this particular expression with the tenses of words that I express to you
— by expressing that you “have participated” in other focuses with this
individual — these focuses are all simultaneous and therefore they are
affecting of each other, and these focuses are affecting of this present
focus in which you hold your attention, for they are occurring at the same
time. They are merely sideways from this particular focus.
I may be encouraging you in the area that you may be investigating your
other focuses in relation to this individual.
In this also, this individual within this particular focus lends energy
to you in the intent and the belonging to the Sumari family, in offering
you information in certain areas to allow you the opportunity to become
more accepting in the direction of other individuals. (Right before saying
the word “intent,” Elias seemed almost exasperated with himself, in trying
to translate into words)
One of the qualities of individuals belonging to the Sumari family —
expressed within physical focus — is that which you may interpret in physical
focus as not holding as much of an attractive element to it, and at times
the presentment of what you identify as negative, which is quite amusing!
But this would be that many individuals that are belonging to the Sumari
family create many expressions within their particular focus of beginnings
and not necessarily endings. They are not necessarily finishers,
so to speak, which may be frustrating to other individuals that draw themselves
to them and participate in creations with them.
Now; this offers you the opportunity to be accepting of differences
in different individuals, for you shall be, within the line of probabilities
that you are creating presently, moving in the direction of allowing yourself
to be interactive with more and more individuals futurely, and in that
you are offering yourself, and have been offering yourself for a time framework,
practicing with your friend in being accepting of your friend.
You also offer to him the element of healing, so to speak, in the area
of allowing an expression of acceptance with him, which offers an influence
that he uses, in a manner of speaking, to allow himself to be more accepting
of himself.
Therefore, it is quite a cooperative relationship, so to speak, for
you offer to each other complementary actions. Within your alignments,
he may be offering certain clarifications to you at certain time periods
that offer you more of an understanding of your own creations, and reciprocating
to him within your alignment, you allow an expression through yourself
of accessing your own inner senses information to him, to allow him more
of an understanding of how to be accessing his inner senses more efficiently.
Are you understanding?
ANONYMOUS: Yes I am, yes. My next question will be about W.
and his wife. Can you tell me more about my relationship with him?
I’ve been through some conflicts with him, after which I moved away from
him (emotionally). I’m not in contact with him right now, because
I think I should be more trusting of myself instead of trusting him.
ELIAS: And I am acknowledging of this expression. Let me
express to you that within certain choices of certain relationships,
you may be offering yourself certain experiences to offer yourself certain
information with regard to some relationships. In this, once you
have offered yourself that information and those experiences, you may also
offer yourself the knowledge within you that it is unnecessary to continue
the same expression of that particular relationship.
Now; in this you offer yourself the opportunity to be accepting of this
individual’s expression and creation of their reality without judgment,
but the opportunity to recognize that although you are accepting of this
individual’s expression and choices and creation of their reality, this
is not to say that you need be participating in creating your reality in
conjunction with that individual, or to be allowing the expression of that
particular individual to be penetrating your energy field.
This allows you another opportunity also to be moving into more of an
expression of trust and acceptance of self, recognizing that the trusting
of self and the acceptance of self is not the rejection of another individual,
but does not necessarily denote that you must be allowing the penetration
within your energy field, within your physical focus, of another individual.
Is this clear?
ANONYMOUS: Yes it is. Is it his intention to be penetrating
my energy field? Because that is exactly what I feel is happening.
I’m not necessarily saying it is his intention to do that, but is it?
ELIAS: At times, yes, but not entirely. Let me clarify for
you in this area.
Infrequently, there are time periods that this individual moves in the
direction of choosing intentionally to be attempting to penetrate your
energy field, and this is a direct expression of his own lack of acceptance
of self, and this mirrors outward and is projected as an energy projection
to you with the intention of penetration, but this is not a consistent
and continuous expression.
Many times the expression is projected for the same reason, but not
with the intention — or the AWARENESS of the intention — of the penetration
to you.
Be understanding that as individuals project their energy in this manner,
as any individual projects energy in this manner, what they are projecting
is the mirror expression of their own issues in their own lack of acceptance
of self, and as they are not allowing themselves the acceptance of self,
they automatically express a mirror action, and this is projected outwardly
to other individuals.
At times — many times — this expression may be projected outwardly to
individuals that you objectively view to be closer to you, in respect to
relationships. This be the reason that you have created your sayings
of, “You are hurtful to those that you love.” Many of your metaphors
hold much truthfulness. You merely do not understand what you are
expressing or what you are saying in these metaphors.
In this, there is an element that you perceive — which is also an aspect
of belief systems — of safety in projecting energy to an individual that
you view that you hold a closeness to, for they shall likely be allowing
the expression, and also allow the penetration.
These are all very intertwined and complicated expressions of aspects
of belief systems, which I shall not extensively move into within this
present now, but I shall express to you that within these expressions,
many times individuals are not intentionally, within their thought process,
creating the idea of being hurtful, but this is the expression that they
project, for they are not accepting of self, and therefore they are projecting
outwardly in that expression.
Now; let us move one step further in this discussion, and let me also
express to you that as each individual allows the penetration and experiences
the feeling of hurtfulness ... now we have moved from the other individual
or the focus being placed upon the other individual to the focus being
placed upon self — YOU. And in this, as the individual allows the
penetration and subsequently is experiencing the feeling of hurt, this
also is an expression of an element of lack of acceptance of self.
Therefore, you are both participating in a very similar action.
This offers you, in what you are moving into presently, the opportunity
to view this and to be moving more into the acceptance of self, for as
you move more into the acceptance of self, initially you offer yourself
the awareness that you need not be allowing the penetration.
This would be your first step, so to speak, which reinforces you and
your acceptance and trust of self, and as you move more and more into that
expression, you also move into your next step of recognizing that each
time you are experiencing the feeling of hurt, you may be examining that
area within yourself that YOU are discounting YOURSELF in and not accepting
of yourself and viewing yourself as being unworthy.
And THIS, in actuality, is what is creating of the expression of hurtfulness;
not that another individual is hurting you, but that YOU are creating of
the hurtful expression to yourself, for you are allowing yourself the duplicity
and the feeling of inadequacy or unworthiness within yourself.
In this, you have created the beginning movement to be moving out of
those expressions and recognizing, and this moves quite efficiently and
much in alignment with the line of probabilities that you have begun creating
in alignment with your essence family intents, for you shall address to
you and your expressions and behaviors first, and therefore offer yourself
more of an ability to be helpful to other individuals in like manner and
in like expression.
As you offer yourself more of an understanding of your own creations
and your own acceptance of self, you may be more beneficial and helpful
and healing to other individuals in understanding their creation and their
acceptance of themselves.
ANONYMOUS: Yes, okay. One last question, I think, because the
time is almost up. I still have difficulties with the parents
of my friend. I feel obliged to visit them more than I would like.
I know they are very happy when we are there, but I do not feel comfortable
with that. Although my friend wants us to go there a lot, I don’t
feel like doing this. Can you tell me something about that?
ELIAS: Yes. This is also your presentment to yourself —
very much in alignment with all that we have been discussing this day —
in offering yourself the opportunity to be accepting and trusting of self
and recognizing that your expression of self is acceptable and that you
need not be allowing other individuals to be dictating your behavior, and
this is NOT creating an expression of not caring or of negativity, so to
speak.
This offers you the opportunity to offer the example and the expression
to other individuals that you may be quite caring and hold affection for
another individual and be participating in relationship with this other
individual, and this is not to say that you need be moving in the same
expressions as that individual.
There may be an allowance within yourself and an acceptance within yourself
of the other individual’s expression and wants and desires, but this is
not to say that you may hold the same wants and desires and expressions,
and this is acceptable, for this is the element of acceptance. In
moving in the direction of acceptance of self, this is the opportunity
for you to offer to yourself that it is acceptable for you to be expressing
yourself in whichever manner you choose.
You may be expressing your own behavior and there is no wrong in that
behavior, and if you are not choosing to be engaging of certain situations
and if you are experiencing uncomfortableness, this is your communication
to yourself that you are pushing yourself in areas of non-acceptance of
yourself and compliance with another individual, and this also is a dictate
of an aspect of the belief system of relationship.
One of the aspects of the belief system of relationship is that you
shall be compromising and compliant with your partner or your friend, and
this is a selfless action and is the expression of acceptance of the other
individual. It also is viewed as being good and noble, and it is
viewed as a very worthy quality. This is most definitely an aspect
of the belief system of relationship coupled with duplicity, for if you
are moving in the direction of expression of self, you shall identify this
as selfish. If you are moving in the direction of placing self first
and looking to your own wants and desires, this shall be viewed as a lack
of acceptance of another individual, for we are quite aware that you shall
ALWAYS place another individual before yourself, (grinning) for this would
be the acceptable expression within the aspects of the belief systems.
But in actuality, as I continue to express to you all, as you allow
yourselves to move more fully into your own expressions and acceptance
of yourselves, you automatically also project more of an acceptance of
other individuals, which shall be noticed, and in this it shall lend energy
to the perpetuation of acceptance itself in general. Therefore, I
am quite encouraging of you to be following your own intuition, your own
wants, and your own desires, and not to be moving in the direction of succumbing
to the dictates of other individuals and THEIR wants and desires.
And in this, you shall be more helpful to yourself and to other individuals
than to be creating of what you view to be negative elements, which shall
grow in the areas of moving yourself into behaviors that you are not pleased
with, and subsequently creating different feelings and behaviors in the
areas of not only uncomfortable, but more of a lack of acceptance, and
resentment.
ANONYMOUS: Okay, thank you very much. One last quick question:
I would like to know if I participate in get-togethers with you in dreams.
Do we have contact that I don’t know about objectively? (Elias grins)
ELIAS: Yes, we have been within communication and interaction,
and I shall offer to you an objective confirmation that you shall allow
yourself to be connecting to futurely.
Let me express to you that as I have with other individuals, I shall
offer you the energy within dream interaction of presentment to you of
blue energy, and in this, as you begin to recognize this energy, regardless
of its form, you shall allow yourself the validation that I am in interaction
and communication with you, and I may be offering to you that similar presentment
within objective terms, so to speak, also. Therefore, as you notice
futurely more of a presentment of this color blue or of its flashing to
you, so to speak, in a playful manner, you may be assured that this is
my presentment of energy to you, and this shall be your validation that
you may be trusting of.
ANONYMOUS: Okay. I want to thank you very much for this session.
ELIAS: You are quite welcome. I extend to you great affection,
and anticipate our next meeting. I offer to you much encouragement
in your movement, for you are creating quite well and you are allowing
yourself much of an openness within your reality to many elements of not
only yourself, but also of this shift in consciousness and your own abilities
to be lending energy to this. I offer to you a blanket of lovingness,
and I express to you a very fond au revoir.
Elias departs at 1:20 PM.
FOOTNOTES:
(1) This was ANONYMOUS’s first session with Elias,
which she transcribed and sent to me, and even though English is not her
“first language,” she did an excellent job of transcribing! Usually
it takes folks quite some time to become used to Elias’ voice and accent,
but ANONYMOUS had very little difficulty in this area. Interesting!
ANONYMOUS’s comment on transcribing is: “I’m glad I did transcribe
it. A lot has become much clearer now, and detailed.”
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