"I may express to you, the manner in which you may discover your preferences in relation to another individual is to be identifying and becoming familiar with your preferences concerning yourself, those aspects of yourself that are pleasurable, that are desirable, that are preferred within yourself that you move easily and naturally within. As you identify those qualities and aspects of yourself, you may also identify what shall complement those; for what may be expressed in complement of those aspects of yourself shall be the preferences in a relationship. There is your formula! "