Slippery Situations
Topics:
"Slippery Situations"
Saturday, April 25, 1998 © 1998 (Private/Phone)
Participants: Mary (Michael), Forrest (Ellius),
Marcos (Marta), and Marissa (Isabel).
Vic's note: Marissa is thirteen years old, and Marcos
is her father. I think this session was conducted long-distance from
Mexico City.
Elias arrives at 11:43 AM. (Arrival time was twenty seconds)
ELIAS: Good morning!
MARCOS: Good morning, Elias. How are you?
ELIAS: As always, and yourself?
MARCOS: We're doing very well. Isabel is here with me, and
as you know, we're using this telephone system, so we'll try to do our
best to come very clear across to you, but we can hear you fine.
It really, really is good to hear you!
ELIAS: (Chuckling) And how be the little Isabel?
MARISSA: Fine, thank you.
ELIAS: Good day, Isabel. How goes your investigation?
MARISSA: Very good. I've gotten better at it!
ELIAS: Have you! And have you connected with which of the
twins you are?
MARISSA: Well, I've kind of had a feeling that I could be Maya.
ELIAS: Ah, very good! You are correct. So, you ARE
investigating of this other focus! And are you engaging fun in this
action?
MARISSA: Yes!
ELIAS: Very good! (Chuckling) And I express my extreme
loss at our NOT meeting at our last session.
MARISSA: I have a question about the same focus. I was feeling
that we, me and my twin, that when we live in Peru, we don't have that
much money. We're okay, but we're not....
ELIAS: Correct.
MARISSA: And then I have this friend who is anorexic, but she
seems okay and she feels good. She's always happy, but how
can I help her or why is she doing this? (Pause)
ELIAS: There are choices that individuals create for themselves,
even as children, that seem to you and to other individuals to be quite
extreme and unacceptable, for they are creating what you view to be hurtfulness
to themselves. At times, an individual may enter a physical focus
and hold such a very grave lack of trust of self that even as a child,
they shall manifest certain elements physically within themselves that
mirror the inner turmoil that they are experiencing. (Pause)
MARISSA: Thank you.
ELIAS: The method, so to speak, of which you may be helpful to
your friend is to be supportive and to be accepting, for at times individuals
within physical focus may be connecting to and accepting within themselves
the acceptance of another individual and allowing that to become a substitute
temporarily for their own acceptance.
Let me explain that this may be exhibited in a similar manner to an
individual who has created a physical injury in which they may create difficulty
for themselves in the activity of walking. Let us express that you
may have a friend that is involved in what you would term to be an accident,
and within this accident, physically they injure one of their legs, causing
themselves to not hold the ability temporarily of walking. You as
the friend would have no difficulty or confusion in recognizing how you
may be helpful to your friend. You may physically support them and
walk with them, and in this encourage them to walk themselves alone eventually,
correct? (Pause)
MARISSA: Okay, thank you.
ELIAS: I shall continue. In this same manner, you may be
supportive of your friend in being accepting of your friend and acknowledging
to this friend that they shall accomplish eventually, and in your acceptance
this shall be encouraging of their own trustfulness of themself, and this
shall be helpful. You need only recognize that your friend is experiencing
fearfulness and a lack of trust and acceptance within self, and in this
seeks outside of self to be gaining that trust and acceptance which they
are blocking within themselves. Therefore, I express to you that
in this situation, it is quite possible for you to be helpful to your friend.
MARISSA: Okay. Thank you very much.
ELIAS: You are welcome.
MARCOS: Elias, on something sort of related, I wanted to ask you
about two nephews that I have. One is my youngest sister's son.
His name is Luis -- he's actually not the youngest, but it's my youngest
sister -- and another nephew whose name is Diego, who both seem to have
somewhat similar but unrelated difficulties, let's say, from our point
of view. They've been to many doctors all over the place, and some
doctors say that they are autistic. Nobody
really knows. Isabel and I have talked about this a lot. We
know that they are creating their experience, seeing some things.
Sometimes it's very frustrating for us because my sister and my other relatives,
it's hard for them to accept it. Of course, Castille does.
So we were just wondering ... I think what you just said about Isabel's
friend is probably the same answer, is it not?
ELIAS: Not entirely. To these small ones, the choice is
different. This would not be a situation of fearfulness and a lack
of trust within self at young ages. This is a choice in a particular
manifestation. These two small ones are focuses of the same essence,
which has chosen to be manifesting two focuses closely related in the same
genetic pool and the same heritage and also the same time framework.
This would be a choice for the enhancement of the experience which has
been chosen within these particular focuses. Within the pool of probabilities
of these small ones, there are probabilities that the action of this creation
may alter futurely and discontinue in the manner that it is being manifest
presently. This essence has chosen a particular type of experience,
but is choosing two focuses to be experiencing; for one focus, in your
terms, is not enough for the fullness of this particular experience or
experiment.
MARCOS: That's fascinating! Now, does this mean that they
would be not continuing futurely with this experiment, in our terms?
In other words, being around a longer time?
ELIAS: No. Do not misunderstand. I am not speaking
of disengagement. I am speaking of the choice of experience as temporary
-- that within the pool of probabilities holds the most probable probability
of altering this choice, changing this choice and manifesting the display
of different behavior -- for the experiment in this choice of experience
is not necessary to hold throughout the entirety of the focus.
MARCOS: Okay, that's very clear. I understand now.
Thank you for clearing that up.
ELIAS: You are welcome.
MARCOS: On another slightly different subject, when you were answering
Isabel's question about the example of someone having an accident, I have
a question here about something that happened to me very recently, and
I've been trying to figure out why, but I haven't. I was getting
into the shower -- I was at a friend's house -- and I fell in the shower
just as I was getting in, and I hit myself face-first on the floor and
scraped my face, and there was some injury to different parts of my body.
I know that for some reason I wanted to call attention to myself or something,
but I haven't quite figured it out. Can you help on this?
ELIAS: Quite extreme imagery, is it not? I shall be suggesting
to you that futurely, if you are choosing to slap yourself in the face,
that you may choose a less offensive method! (Chuckling, and Marcos
laughs)
You are correct that you have been attempting to gain your own attention.
Now be observing your own imagery. You place yourself in the situation
of covering yourself with an element, water, which is outwardly covering
the entirety of your form. You step and you create the imagery of
slipping. In this slipping -- for the ground beneath you is slippery
-- you stumble and you fall, and in this fall you damage yourself partially.
Look with me at this imagery. You have created a situation within
your experience recently of covering yourself, allowing your camouflage
to be that which is projected instead of baring yourself to other individuals.
In this, in creating partially an illusion for others to view, you place
yourself upon slippery ground. In placing yourself upon slippery
ground, you also create within your focus the possibility of stumbling.
Think to your relationships: the covering partially pulling back, so
to speak -- partially, not entirely -- and in this action also creating
of the slippery ground, for this is influencing of other individuals which
interpret within their perception of a lack of understanding, or concern,
or suspect. In this, you are setting yourself up, so to speak, for
your stumble, and this not only may be damaging to yourself, which it is
most of all, but also partially to others. Are you understanding?
MARCOS: Perfectly. I think that I felt, as I have reflected
upon this, that it was based on fear. And as you mentioned, the positioning
of myself on slippery ground and stumbling ... it makes perfect sense now.
It makes perfect sense, not only for me, but for the other individuals
that you were referring to. It's absolutely very clear. Thank
you very much.
ELIAS: You are welcome.
MARCOS: I WILL be observing myself!
ELIAS: Very good.
MARCOS: A slightly different question now, Elias, if I may.
I was speaking with Cindel, as I always do just about every day, and she
has been visualizing with a lot of imagery the all-elusive Vincent.
She now places him in the vicinity of Houston, and Houston has been coming
up very much in my creation as well. My job has been leading me to
Houston very much. There are people involved in my company that are
moving to Houston. We're doing a lot of things in Houston.
So, she wanted to know if there was a relationship in all of this.
ELIAS: It is the continuation of the probabilities that you are
pulling together. This be the reason that you draw yourselves to
certain areas.
MARCOS: This makes sense. We've been, as you know, dwelling
upon and lending energy to the situation with Vincent, and I think things
have evolved. Yes, they are starting to be clearer in a way, or being
created in a more familiar place, no?
ELIAS: In an area that you come together collectively, as opposed
to the scatteredness that you have been experiencing previously.
You are drawing your energies to a central location.
MARCOS: That's great. Cindel will be very happy to hear
that! Okay, I'm going to let Isabel ask a couple of questions.
MARISSA: My mom ... I was wondering what her essence name was?
ELIAS: Yanise-ya; Y-A-N-I-S-E-hyphen-Y-A. (-ya pronounced
yae)
MARCOS: Can you give me the first three letters again?
ELIAS: Y-A-N.
MARISSA: Okay, I have another question having to do with a focus.
I have another friend, and we are very similar. We feel the same
way about many things, and I had like a weird feeling, I don't know, but
that she might be my brother in another focus?
ELIAS: Very good, Isabel! You are correct.
MARISSA: Thanks!
ELIAS: (Chuckling) I extend my acknowledgment to you.
You are accomplishing very well!
MARISSA: Thank you!
MARCOS: Moving to a dream imagery, Elias, I had a dream a couple
of weeks ago whereby ... first of all, let me say I've been dreaming much
more lucidly since our encounters than I used to ever before. Even
in some meditations, and you know this better than I do, I have heard you.
I have spoken with you and I've heard you. You've probably talked
to me much more than I have listened, but I have heard you, especially
in very difficult moments that I've had where you have helped me tremendously,
and I want to thank you for that very, very much.
ELIAS: You are quite welcome. I have expressed to you each
many times that I am present with you always. It is merely the situation
of allowing yourselves to be noticing and opening to the offering of energy
that is presented.
MARCOS: Thank you very much. Let me ask you about this dream
then. I had a dream which was a very exciting dream to me.
Within this dream, I was asked to move away from what I'm doing now, which
is working in a bank in the financial industry, and I moved to a very different,
completely unrelated activity which made me very happy. It surprised
me at the same time, but it made me very, very happy. I was surrounded
by individuals who were very good at what they did. This could have
been in the academic or social or political field, I'm not sure, but it
was completely unrelated to the financial aspect, yet I was very fulfilled.
I felt exhilarated. I felt free, which is a little bit puzzling because
I like what I do very much, yet sometimes I do feel the constraints of
working within an institution. I have thought, as I've mentioned
before too, about sometimes moving, but I don't give it that much importance.
Yet in this dream, everything seemed to come together, and I just felt
terrific. I felt wonderful!
ELIAS: This is imagery that you are presenting to yourself.
Be remembering of this. Within this dream, what you are presenting
yourself is the familiar versus, so to speak, the unfamiliar, and that
if allowing yourself to move into the unfamiliar, you may discover the
fulfillment that you seek within your focus. This dream imagery is
not necessarily suggestive of absolutes in the area of discontinuing a
certain type of employ and moving physically into the area of a different
employ, but to suggest to you that the imagery of your work presently is
that of the familiar, the comfortable. The imagery of altering your
choice for your work and moving into a different area of working is that
of the unfamiliar.
This particular dream is quite symbolic, so to speak. The job
that you hold presently is your imagery or your symbol within your dream,
not representing that which it is in itself, but representing the familiar
elements within your focus, the comfortable areas within your focus that
you hold to and you feel no desire to be altering or changing, which is
acceptable. But you also view other aspects, other elements of reality
which are imaged in the dream as being a different job with new, different
individuals.
What this dream imagery is suggesting to you is that you may allow
yourself to loosen your hold on areas of fearfulness that you hold and
recognize that these areas of unfamiliarity, in widening your awareness
and also with other individuals objectively in the direction of widening
your awareness, may appear to you as different and new and unfamiliar,
but is fulfilling and joyful, and therefore there is no necessity for fearfulness
in this.
MARCOS: This is great! Thank you very much. Thank
you for clearing it up. It makes a lot of sense!
ELIAS: You are welcome.
MARCOS: Thank you. One more. This is perhaps regarding
the shift, I'm not quite sure, but there are things
happening throughout the world that I think -- and correct me if I'm wrong
-- are part of the shift that could be catastrophic in a sense. What
I'm talking about, for example, is as we come to our year 2000, the millennium
and all that, there is a very, very large, serious problem with computers
throughout the world because they have not been programmed properly.
As the year 2000 comes, there could be a huge crisis, especially within
the financial sector, but also with governments and companies. Is
this part of the shift, and is this something that we can alter probabilities
and do something about?
ELIAS: Yes, it is an action which is being created within probabilities
of the shift. Yes, you may alter this if you are so choosing, but
I am suggesting to you that in widening your awareness, notice the imagery
that you are collectively throughout your globe creating.
You have developed an interconnectedness through your technology.
You have allowed yourselves the ability to create objective imagery in
creating your computers, which connect you to each other throughout your
globe. You also create a situation within this creation of the possibility
and also the probability of its complications and malfunction as you move
into your new millennium, and as you move into your new millennium, the
action of this shift moves more swiftly and more intensely, and as I have
expressed to you, the entirety of your reality shall be altered.
I have also expressed that the systems that you have held to within what
you term to be government, societies, monetary exchange, shall alter also.
Therefore, you create imagery that is suggestive of this in the areas of
government, societies, monetary systems. You are creating probabilities
to be "crashing them down" to make way for your new systems, so to speak.
MARCOS: Yes, that's becoming more evident to me in everything
that you've said -- governments and society, the monetary system, which
seems to be changing very rapidly.
I have a question on something very related. I have chosen, at
least I've objectively chosen, to stay around, to live and experience the
shift in this focus, and that means I would have to be about a hundred
and fifty years old, but I know that I can! But one thing has created
some doubt in my mind. I read a book by another essence -- Conversations
With God. This essence seems to be suggesting that certain foods,
like animal foods, are not good for you. He also suggests -- I think,
the way I read it -- that wine or alcohol is also
damaging. I thought those were belief systems that could be changed
somewhat, because on the one hand, I do enjoy a good bottle of wine and
I don't want to give it up! But I want to be around for the shift,
so that's created a little bit of conflict. I know you've talked
about that we could survive on rocks and things like that, so there seems
to be some contradiction there, huh?
ELIAS: These are influenced by belief systems, as I have expressed.
Your belief systems may be very influencing, and as I have expressed to
you and within this forum, in themselves these elements or substances that
you may consume hold no harmfulness. It is merely your belief systems
that create this type of action. Therefore, in one sense another
essence may express to you, recognizing of mass and individual belief systems,
that certain elements may be harmful to you. In actuality, they are
merely harmful to you as your belief systems dictate they shall be harmful
to you, but if you are moving into the area of accepting these types of
belief systems and their affectingness, you shall not manifest this.
Vic's note: I have changed the last sentence in the above paragraph
because it is contradictory as originally stated, which is possibly a prelude
to what occurs next. Here is the sentence as it was delivered: "In
actuality, they are merely harmful to you as your belief systems dictate
they shall be harmful to you, but if you are not moving into the area of
accepting these types of belief systems and their affectingness, you shall
not manifest this." ()
ELIAS: This is the reason that I express to you that in one respect,
certain elements may be affecting of you, but this is in conjunction with
your belief systems. In not holding....
Vic's note: Here, Elias starts coughing uncontrollably, at which
point Mary pops back in and continues coughing. I'm not sure exactly
what happened next because the tape was turned off at this point,
but the subject of the affectingness of substances isn't readdressed in
this session. Normally, Elias returns to the subject matter without
missing a beat, which has always amazed me, but this wasn't the case in
this situation.
BREAK 12:24 PM
RESUME 12:30 PM (Arrival time was six seconds)
ELIAS: Continuing. As I was expressing, as to your societies
and your governments and your monetary systems, this is not to say that
these events shall be occurring instantaneously at the onset of your new
millennium. They shall be, in your terms, gradual in some areas,
although they shall be rapid enough that you shall hold an objective awareness
all around you that these events are occurring and leading you farther
into the action of this shift.
MARCOS: Okay, yes. That's very clear. I understand.
You have confirmed many of the things that I've been reading about or seeing
and feeling and even dreaming about in conjunction with the millennium
and the shift, and I guess my intent in a way is to continue to lend energy
to get more individuals to understand why this is happening and hopefully
to lessen the shock or the trauma, no?
ELIAS: Absolutely, and you shall be noticing more and more intensity
in the movement which is being objectified within the action of this shift.
MARCOS: Okay. Thank you, Elias. Moving to another
subject. This is a subject which is near and dear
to my heart, because she's sitting right here! Yesterday we were
driving together, Isabel and myself. Music is a very strong bond
for us, and we were listening to a couple of songs which we both like very
much and we were not talking at all, yet we felt ... and we haven't discussed
this, but I think this is right. We felt a very, very strong, intense
bond/relationship that I think, just to me anyway, goes beyond anything
that I have felt, just a very different feeling, and it's just a wonderful,
wonderful feeling. I often dream about her, and coincidentally, last
night I dreamt of playing golf with Isabel in a tournament. So I
guess it's just a comment, but since she's here, maybe you can tell us
a little bit of this strong bond that we feel, because it's just wonderful.
ELIAS: You are developing, within this particular focus, more
of an intensity within objective relationship. You have held focuses
in different capacities of relationships in other focuses, and in this
particular focus you are choosing the experience of intimacy in a manner
that may be shared only in the relationship that you have created with
each other.
Many times individuals inquire of myself of their connection and relation
to other individuals in other focuses, and as they do not hold a specific
type of closeness with a certain individual within THIS particular focus,
they look to another focus and inquire as to the intensity within that
focus. Many individuals move in this direction concerning "soul mates,"
but they do not inquire of which focus was creating of the intensity of
that specific bond.
Recognizing that all of your focuses are simultaneous, one shall be
creating of the very intimate bond which shall be influencing of the other
focuses, which these other focuses then recognize the relationship and
they inquire, "Is this my soul mate? For I feel this relationship."
But they look to only romantic relationships as being creating of this
situation. In certain areas within the focuses of essence, you create
a deep and lasting bonding and intensity of interconnectedness with another
essence in experiencing a focus together and allowing yourselves to merge
and be interconnected. Therefore, in these types of situations, as
is the case with yourself and Isabel presently, you are influencing and
lending energy to all of your other focuses in different capacities of
relationships.
MARCUS: Thank you. That was very good. That was it
for me. I think Isabel has one more question to ask of you.
ELIAS: Very well.
MARISSA: I have, in my right foot ...
it's been about three months or something. It's been hurting a lot,
my toe. I've gone to the doctor and they've checked me and I don't
have anything, but I don't know. Am I doing this to myself, or why
is this happening?
ELIAS: Look your yourself and look to your action. What
is the action of your foot? What do you do with your foot?
You walk upon your foot and you stand upon your foot. You hold and
you move as you choose to move your foot. This is your objective
imagery to yourself of certain elements of your own movement which you
view to be slightly painful. In moving in certain directions in compliance
with this information and interaction with this information and widening
your awareness, at times this may be creating of uncomfortableness with
other individuals. You feel that you must be silent of this information,
and you must be guarded and protective of your movement in your widening
of your awareness. In this you create a painfulness within your foot,
for your foot is your symbol to yourself of holding to what you believe,
which is standing, and movement or walking in widening your awareness,
but that this may not be entirely accepted by other individuals, for you
view them to be authorities older than yourself and that they may be discounting
of you, for you are small. But be remembering that it matters not
your smallness within your focus presently, for you hold an awareness regardless,
and you may hold to your actions and to your movement and to your trust
of self, and it matters not that other individuals may not entirely understand,
although they be of more years than yourself. You choose....
MARCOS: I have nothing to do with that foot ailment, Elias!
(Marcos and Marissa both crack up)
ELIAS: I am quite aware, and there is no accusation projected!
MARCOS: Alright!
ELIAS: This is an inward feeling that you, Isabel, feel in regard
to other individuals -- and you are aware of who these other individuals
are -- that you may not feel comfortable in expressing yourself with or
feel that they shall [not] be entirely accepting of what you are expressing,
for they discount elements of your expression in the belief system that
you are small and that you do not know. But you do know! One
of these individuals presently is the individual that you have asked for
essence name this day, is it not?
MARISSA: Yes.
ELIAS: I am aware. Let me express to you that you are perfect
in what you are, and you may hold the acceptance within you that it matters
not that another individual be discounting of parts of your expressions,
for you hold the knowing within yourself. In this, it is unnecessary
for you to be holding energy within your foot and creating uncomfortableness,
although I shall express to you also that in this physical expression that
you have created, you allow yourself the continuation of your movement
within your widening of awareness and merely project energy that may be
blocking into your foot, and therefore do not allow yourself to be blocked
within your movement subjectively and objectively in your widening of your
awareness. In this respect, I am acknowledging of your creation,
that you are not blocking your movement, but I am also expressing to you
that it is unnecessary for you to be causing yourself discomfort in your
movement merely in response to the lack of total acceptance of other individuals.
MARISSA: Thank you. You've been very helpful.
ELIAS: You are quite welcome.
MARCOS: Thank you, Elias. You know, last night Isabel and
I were watching a movie, and it was a wonderful, wonderful movie with one
of our favorite actors, Robin Williams, and there was a phrase that I heard
and we thought about you, and we just want to say thank you, oh, captain,
my captain!
ELIAS: (Chuckling) And I express to you also, carpe diem!
MARCOS: Ha! Thank you so much. It's been wonderful,
as always.
ELIAS: (Chuckling) And I shall be expressing to you both,
to Marta much affection and to little Isabel much lovingness, and I shall
be anticipating our next meeting and encouraging you, Isabel, to be continuing
on your adventure in Peru! To you both this day, I offer much affection.
MARCOS: Likewise. Thank you!
ELIAS: And a very fond au revoir.
Elias departs at 12:47 PM.
FOOTNOTES:
(1) I changed this sentence to align with Elias'
definition of accepting belief systems. In transcribing these sessions,
I rarely change Elias' words. When I do, I always offer the original
words and an explanation. This is in the interest of the least distortion,
as I know full well that I could be misinterpreting, and also in an effort
to present the phenomenon as it is. Vic
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