Session 1849

“Attracted to Two People”

Sunday, September 25, 2005 (Private/Phone)

Participants: Mary (Michael) and Alex (Puja)

(Elias’ arrival time is 20 seconds.)

ELIAS: Good evening!

ALEX: Hi, Elias. It’s very nice to hear from you.

ELIAS: And you also. And what shall we discuss?

ALEX: I was thinking about starting off with a little question I have for you. Is this okay?


ALEX: What I wanted to ask you was why do I stutter, and how can I stop it?

ELIAS: Ah. Very well. Let me express to you, you may practice with an exercise that shall be helpful to you in allowing yourself to slow your energy and allow you to generate more of a relaxed energy, and that shall be helpful in association with the speech. In this, if you allow yourself to focus upon your red energy center and slow your thoughts, slow your energy, generate a moment of relaxation and pause before engaging speech, this shall allow you more clarity and shall influence how you engage speech. What you do is you generate a scatteredness, and in that, you also create an energy of excitement.

Now; that excitement can be translated into anxiousness, or it can be translated into frustration at times, and in that, you begin to incorporate an action of speeding your thought process. As you generate the thought process faster and faster, you actually create a scatteredness in which you are not actually paying attention to what you actually want to express through speech, for your thought mechanism is being interrupted and is becoming confused in association with ideas or responses that you want to express.

Therefore, if you allow yourself to momentarily pause and notice how your energy is becoming excited and momentarily focus upon your red energy center and slowing your movement, slowing your thought process and slowing your energy, allowing yourself not to generate automatic responses in immediately attempting to express through speech but allowing yourself a moment in which you calm your energy, allow yourself to center and focus, and in that, intentionally generate a pause prior to engaging speech, this shall allow you more clarity, and it shall interrupt that automatic pattern of excitement, which, as I have stated, can translate into agitation or even frustration. But if you are allowing yourself a moment of pause, you can move that energy into a balance of calm rather than excitement.

ALEX: Thank you. Just a related question. Why do I stutter only when I speak to other people? Why do I not stutter when I speak to myself or just now when I’m speaking to you?

ELIAS: For in interaction with other individuals, this triggers that excited energy. There is somewhat of an apprehensiveness in your energy associated with interacting with other individuals and whether your expression of yourself is appropriate or acceptable enough. Therefore, you generate this energy of defense, which is an automatic response and is very familiar. In that familiarity, you have created this pattern in which you interact with another individual, you automatically begin shielding in defense, and that triggers this excited energy, this agitated energy.

ALEX: How can I let that shield go down?

ELIAS: In practicing this exercise that I have expressed to you.

Now; understand this exercise requires merely a momentary pause. It is not an action that you must incorporate several minutes. It requires merely a brief moment in which you allow yourself not to be focusing upon the other individual but to be momentarily focusing upon you, incorporating the usefulness of the red energy center, for that energy center allows you easily to slow your energy and to generate more of a calm. In that, as I have expressed, intentionally express a moment of pause prior to engaging with the other individual or prior to responding to another individual, for...

ALEX: Thank you very much.

ELIAS: You are quite welcome.

ALEX: Now I have another question. Is this my final focus?

ELIAS: And your impression?

ALEX: I think so, yes.

ELIAS: You are correct.

ALEX: How does that reflect in what I do?

ELIAS: It does not, necessarily. This is a misunderstanding that many individuals express. They generate an association that if they are the designated final focus they continue to associate with the idea or the philosophy of reincarnation, and in that, they associate focuses linearly. Therefore, they generate an automatic association that as the designated final focus perhaps that influences them to view their world in a different manner from other individuals or even perhaps influences them to experience lack of motivation or depression or anxiousness to not be continuing within this physical reality. That is not true.

In this, as I have expressed many times, the designated final focus is merely a position. It is a position of one focus, which, upon disengagement, ALL of the focuses of that essence also remove from this physical reality, or they engage fragmentation in which they become a new essence, and that allows that essence to continue participation within this physical reality. But that is the only designation of the final focus. It is not associated with how you perceive and interact with your world.

ALEX: Thank you very much for that. Just a quick question I wanted to ask you. I saw a movie today by H. G. Wells, and I wondered if you had anything to do with that movie being on just now, just today. Did you have anything to do with that?

ELIAS: (Laughs) Merely in an energy of prompting you to engage it, but not further.

ALEX: I understand. Thank you very much. Now I have a different question, regarding my relationships.

ELIAS: Very well.

ALEX: I have a relationship with my girlfriend, and also I have a relationship with a friend of mine. I was wondering if you could tell me why am I so drawn to this friend of mine? Why do I feel so close to her?

ELIAS: You engage counterpart action, and you also have shared many focuses together.

ALEX: Can you give me an example of a focus we shared?

ELIAS: Very well. But I shall also encourage you to be investigating. (Laughs)

You incorporate one focus together in the physical location of what you identify as Wales. In that focus you are partners, and you incorporate five children. You also are very close in friendship in that focus.

ALEX: And how about this focus? Is she attracted to me now as well? (Pause)

ELIAS: Somewhat.

ALEX: It sometimes seems to me that I would like to pursue a romantic relationship with her, but I am not sure that is what I really want, you know?

ELIAS: I am understanding. It is significant, my friend, that you genuinely allow yourself to pay attention to you and to listen to your own communications, and also be aware of what beliefs are influencing you, and in those beliefs, what types of influences are being expressed. In that, you may generate more clarity in assessing what you actually genuinely want and not confuse yourself with automatic associations. It is quite common for individuals to generate genuine attractions to other individuals but to also many times misconstrue those attractions with an automatic association of sexuality.

ALEX: What I think I want from her is not be close to her sexually. That’s probably true; that’s what I really want. I just want to be close to her. When I see her, I just want to be close to her, I want to talk to her. It’s hard for me to understand that because I already have a girlfriend. I don’t really understand why do I need her to be close to me, you understand?

ELIAS: It is not a matter of need, my friend. It is a matter of natural attraction and familiarity, and appreciation of another individual and their energy.

Also, let me express to you, contrary to the mass beliefs and guidelines of many societies that express that the individual only incorporates the capacity to love and generate an intimate relationship with another individual singularly, as an individual physically focused you actually incorporate boundless energy and a limitless capacity to express appreciation, love, and intimacy with many individuals. You are not limited to the creation of that with merely one individual. But beliefs may influence in a manner that can limit you to merely expressing intimacy with one individual. This is the reason that it is significant to pay attention to your own beliefs, your own guidelines, and what you actually incorporate as preferences, which may or may not necessarily be in alignment with mass guidelines.

ALEX: I understand that. When you said that she was attracted to me somewhat, does she consider having a possible intimate relationship with me?

ELIAS: Not entirely, but that is also being influenced by the same mass beliefs, and viewing you as somewhat unavailable for that type of relationship, and questioning herself also. There are strong beliefs in play in association with what you should or should not do and what she should or should not do.

ALEX: Thank you for that. Now I have another question. I recently felt like I was connected with a focus of mine who lives in a sort of a desert world somewhere in another physical reality. Can you confirm that?

ELIAS: Yes. This is another focus.

ALEX: Which lives in sort of another physical reality?


ALEX: What is my essence name? (Pause)

ELIAS: Essence name, Puja, P-U-J-A (POO yah).



ALEX: Approximately how many focuses does that essence have in this physical reality? (Pause)

ELIAS: One thousand two hundred sixty-one.

ALEX: That’s quite a lot compared to the average...

ELIAS: Yes, yes.

ALEX: I understand. Another question I had is recently I have been creating tremendous wealth in my life, and I was wondering if you could comment on that. Why do I create it?

ELIAS: (Chuckles) And what is your impression?

ALEX: My impression is that somehow I feel myself to be on sort of a right course, and so maybe that is what is causing me to generate all this wealth.

ELIAS: And also trusting yourself and not questioning your ability to actually generate that. This would not be an area of concern or challenge for you. What is more of a challenge is in your interaction with other individuals.

ALEX: So you’re saying that my challenge in this focus is interaction with other individuals, is that right?

ELIAS: For the most part, yes, allowing yourself that type of freedom and trust and lack of questioning and doubt that you do in generating money, generating the ability to translate that type of freedom into your interactions with other individuals.

ALEX: Thank you for that. That is very accurate, too, I think.

ELIAS: (Chuckles) I may express to you, my friend, you do incorporate the ability to generate this. It is merely a matter of genuinely allowing yourself your own freedom, offering yourself your own permission to express your own freedom.

ALEX: Regarding that focus in the desert, is he somewhat human-like? Does he look like a human being?


ALEX: Can you try to describe him, in a way?

ELIAS: A figurative translation of that manifestation into what you would understand in your reality would be similar to a creature with many tentacles but with a surface that could be likened to your substance of sand.

ALEX: Thank you.

ELIAS: You are welcome.

ALEX: I want to return for a minute to my question about my relationship. My question is why do I create this kind of a tension between my relationship with my girlfriend and my relationship with my friend? There is a certain tension there.

ELIAS: Be more specific.

ALEX: I feel like I’m drawn to both of them, and I’m feeling that I am sort of caught in the middle between them sometimes. So that is my question, why do I do that? Why am I attracted to both of them?

ELIAS: I have expressed why you are attracted to both of them, but what generates the friction or the conflict within you is your association with your own beliefs and in relation to what you should do and what you should not do.

These are expectations that you express of yourself, that if you are being responsible in any type of relationship, it must be clearly defined and there should be no crossing of boundaries. That generates an agitation within you, for that is contrary to what you actually want. But as I have expressed, there are strong beliefs at play, and they are influencing in association with your own expectations of yourself. In this, as you generate these expectations of yourself in an expression of strength, you also project an agitated energy, and that is also reflected at times.

ALEX: Thank you for that. Another question: do I share some focuses with my girlfriend?


ALEX: Many focuses?


ALEX: Can you give me an example of one of them? (Pause)

ELIAS: One focus in the physical location of Sweden, in which you are siblings, both female, and generate a closeness throughout the entirety of your focuses. But you incorporate, in similar manner to the other individual, many focuses with this individual in many different capacities.

ALEX: I understand that. Probably my last question for the day, there might be just another one after that. You said that whales and dolphins are now essence. Is that right?


ALEX: Do they have a language right now?


ALEX: Could we understand that language?

ELIAS: It is possible.

ALEX: How would one go about communicating with whales or dolphins? Is it possible in any way?

ELIAS: It may be more efficient in this time framework to be interacting and communicating energetically. They are highly sensitive to energy, and understand energy as do yourselves, but you in your species do not pay as much attention to energy and therefore are not as attuned to it as these manifestations are. But if you are so choosing, you may be practicing with your own sensitivity to energy and your own ability to translate that into your own language, and that shall generate an avenue in which you can be communicating.

ALEX: Thank you. I think that is all the questions I have for this session, and I had a really nice time. I just wanted to thank you for this, and I hope we shall meet again.

ELIAS: Very well, my friend. I shall be anticipating of that, and I shall be expressing my energy to you in encouragement and playfulness, perhaps to remind you to be generating more of a lightness in your energy. (Laughs)

ALEX: Yes, that would be helpful.

ELIAS: Ha ha! Very well, my friend. Until our next meeting, in great affection to you, au revoir.

ALEX: Thank you very much. Good-bye.

(Elias departs after 36 minutes.)